Jay S. Lindsay, Ph.D.
Licensed Clinical Psychologist
Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist
Certified Emotionally Focused Couple Therapist
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My Affair Recovery Program

“Very likely, your affair-shattered marriage can be repaired.”

On Your Affair Recovery Retreat You’ll Get Intensive Marriage Counseling

Are you reeling from an affair?

It may be a physical affair, an emotional affair, a cyber affair, or one more in a string of affairs. Whatever kind of affair it is, on your intensive marriage counseling weekend my Affair Recovery Program will help you heal.

Intensive Marriage CounselingIf your partner has had the affair…

  • you’re in excruciating pain, stunned, and disoriented
  • you’re alternating between numbness and rage
  • you’re perhaps feeling hopeless or even in despair

You may be asking yourself:

  • “How could my spouse do this to me?”
  • “Do I even know my partner?”
  • “Will I ever be able to trust again?”
  • “Can my marriage be saved?”
  • “Do I even want it to be saved?”

If you’ve had the affair, you may be…

  • feeling guilty
  • feeling humiliated, perhaps defensive
  • feeling relieved that the strain of living a double life is over, yet frightened abut the future
  • missing your affair partner and feeling torn between that person and your spouse
  • wanting desperately to save your marriage… or not being so sure

You’re not alone.

Infidelity is the most common reason that couples from all across the country travel to Colorado for my marriage counseling intensives.

They come to participate in the highly effective affair recovery retreat that I have developed over the past 35 years. Interventions used in this intensive marriage counseling program have helped hundreds of couples save their marriages from infidelity.

You may think that your marriage can’t possibly survive the affair. But very likely it can survive… and even thrive. My Affair Recovery Program, in the context of a private marriage counseling weekend retreat, can help you and your partner get past the affair and become closer than ever.

With my affair recovery program in the weekend intensive format, there is hope for your marriage.

  • That gaping wound can be healed.
  • That broken trust can be repaired.
  • You can win your partner back.
  • An affair need never happen again.

Affair Recovery RetreatWhy do you need to do an affair recovery retreat with me?

Nothing is more threatening to a marriage than an extramarital affair. Each year, thousands of affair-stricken couples break up needlessly because they don’t get the right help.

My Affair Recovery Program is carefully structured to accomplish two things.

First, it can help you avoid costly mistakes that can delay or even derail the healing process in your relationship.

Second, it can help you make sure that you cover all the steps of affair recovery in the right order and in the right way so that your marriage really does heal.

You may think that you can recover from an affair on your own, but trust me on this. Your marriage has a much greater chance of staying together if you get help from a therapist who specializes in counseling couples who have experienced infidelity.

Here’s how my Affair Recovery Program works.

Over the past 40 years, I have discovered that when an affair has occurred in a marriage, a couple must move through seven stages of affair recovery if they are to heal. These seven stages are the basis of my Affair Recovery Program.

On your marriage counseling weekend intensive, I’ll work privately with just the two of you for three or four days, combining a number of sessions close together so that you’ll make rapid progress toward recovery.

Here are the seven stages of affair recovery that you must move through in order to heal. On your retreat, I will guide you through all seven.

The Seven Stages of Affair Recovery

Stage 1:     Managing the Immediate Crisis
Stage 2:     Clarifying What Happened
Stage 3:     Healing the Wounded Partner
Stage 4:     Healing the Involved Partner
Stage 5:     Understanding Why It Happened
Stage 6:     Repairing the Broken Bond
Stage 7:     Moving Forward

The primary approach I’ll use on your intensive marriage counseling weekend has been proven to be highly effective.

With this approach nearly 75% of distressed couples recover and 90% experience significant improvement.

This approach is called Emotionally Focused Couple Therapy, or EFT, and it’s ideally suited for helping couples to heal from infidelity. On your private marriage counseling retreat I’ll use EFT as well as other approaches to guide you through your affair recovery.

Here’s why it makes good sense for you to do the Affair Recovery Program with me on a private marriage counseling weekend intensive.

My Affair Recovery Program is especially effective on a retreat because you’ll get the extended, uninterrupted time you need to make rapid and substantial progress. You’ll go deeper faster and you’ll go farther than you possibly could in the same number of sessions spread out weekly over months.

Why do couples from all across the country choose to do marriage counseling weekend intensives with me to help them recover from affairs?

They know that I’m an affair recovery specialist with 40 years of experience and a national reputation for pulling distressed couples back from the brink. My Affair Recovery Program in the retreat format has been demonstrated to be highly effective at helping couples to heal from infidelity.

Yes, there really is hope for your marriage when one of you has been unfaithful.

Very likely, your affair-shattered marriage can be repaired. My Affair Recovery Program can help you pick up the pieces and put them back together again.

That may seem impossible to you right now, but take it from the many affair-stricken couples who have done affair recovery retreats with me. It really is possible. Your marriage can be made whole again.

Seek help right now before things get worse.

The longer you delay in seeking help for an affair, the more damage can be done, making your marriage more difficult to save.  So contact me immediately!

 

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